Prof. Bailey apologizes for damaging NU's reputation with optional sex toy demonstration

Human Sex professor stands by educational value of event, announces plan to host discussion about it

By Staff report

Published: Friday, March 4, 2011

Updated: Sunday, May 1, 2011

Northwestern psychology Prof. John Michael Bailey issued a statement Saturday morning apologizing for the fallout from a optional, after-class sex toy demonstration in his Human Sexuality class last week.

Although Bailey, a popular 21-year professor, said he would never allow something like the demonstration to occur in his class ever again, he stood by the educational value of the event and noted his shock that the incident has gotten so much attention.

Media outlets from across the country and world have picked up the story.

"I regret the effect this has had on Northwestern University's reputation and I regret upsetting so many people in this particular manner," Bailey said.

University President Morton Schapiro has said Bailey showed "extremely poor judgment" in allowing the demonstration. The administration is investigating what took place during the Feb. 21 optional, after-class presentation.

In his statement, Bailey said he hopes to work with Schapiro to host a discussion about the incident on campus sometime in the future.

More than 800 NU students have signed an online petition asking that Bailey not be severely punished for the incident.

 

The full text of Bailey's apology is below:

I regret allowing the controversial after class demonstration on February 21st. I regret the effect that this has had on Northwestern University's reputation, and I regret upsetting so many people in this particular manner. I apologize. As I have noted elsewhere, the demonstration was unplanned and occurred because I made a quick decision to allow it. I should not have done so. In the 18 years I have taught the course, nothing like the demonstration at issue has occurred, and I will allow nothing like it to happen again.

To admit that I did not anticipate the degree of reaction my decision provoked does not even begin to convey my surprise. During a time of financial crisis, war, and global warming, this story has been a top news story for more than two days. That this is so reveals a stark difference of opinion between people like me, who see absolutely no harm in what happened, and those who believe that it was profoundly wrong.

I have already stated my case as clearly as I could (see:http://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/JMichael-­‐Bailey/articles/Baileystatement.pdf): The demonstration was relevant to a topic relevant to my course, it occurred after class in a completely voluntary setting with ample information about what would occur. It involved an act that although unusual, had no harmful effect on anyone. Observers were Northwestern students legally capable of voting, enlisting in the military, and consuming pornography, as well as making many other serious decisions that legal adults are allowed to make.  

Those who believe that there was, in fact, a serious problem have had considerable opportunity to explain why: in the numerous media stories on the controversy, or in their various correspondences with me. But they have failed to do so. Saying that the demonstration "crossed the line," "went too far," "was inappropriate," or "was troubling" convey disapproval but do not illuminate reasoning. If I were grading the arguments I have seen against what occurred, most would earn an "F." Offense and anger are not arguments. But I remain open to hearing and reading good arguments.

Although as I have noted, I regret allowing the demonstration, as an educator I do not think we should waste the opportunity the controversy has raised. There are real, important issues here, including optimal limits on academic freedom, the effect of sexual attitudes on education, and sexual rights and responsibilities, among others. A great university, such as Northwestern University, should be a place where people are not only free, but encouraged, to debate our most contentious issues. These include, apparently, the issues raised by the February 21st demonstration.

I am working with undergraduate students to arrange an event that includes high-­‐level discussion and debate about the February 21st demonstration and the issues it has raised. I invite President Schapiro to work with us to help ensure that this event is as intellectually valuable as it should be.

Finally, I want to express my appreciation and admiration to the many students, colleagues, and parents who have written me in support. They, also, are part of the Northwestern community, along with some of those whom I have offended.   

J. Michael Bailey

Professor

Evanston, IL

3/5/11

 

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Comments

23 comments
An Alum
Mon Mar 14 2011 14:47
I give Professor Bailey an F on his defensive argument. He says the demonstration was "relevant" to something that was "relevant" in his class, but he fails to explain WHY it is educational. Isn't an academic endeavor supposed to be educational? Or, maybe not so at NU?
Hank
Sat Mar 12 2011 16:17
Wow, I'm overwhelmed by the irrationality in these negative replies. In his apology he specifically says that his lack of remorse is due to a complete lack of any explanation as to why the demonstration was bad. So what is the response? Lot's of people still being offended and angry, but not even a single attempt to actually set out why this was bad and what harm it actually did.

Way to live up to your stereotypes guys.

Anonymous
Mon Mar 7 2011 12:10
anonymous 02:11, words cannot describe how grateful I am that not everyone is like you. If everyone was as scared of sex as you were, the human race would either be wiped out by STDs that researchers would be too scared to find cures for (scared like you think Bailey should be), or we simply would cease to exist as we died out from lack of reproduction due to prudes like you
Anonymous
Mon Mar 7 2011 09:49
"If he went on to say, that not only does he research this stuff, but he introduces it to 600 young men and women a year.........then, I think, I would consider him more than just a creep."

120 consenting adults after multiple prior warnings of explicit content for the first time ever, and he stated it won't happen again.

Anonymous
Mon Mar 7 2011 09:37
I'm on the "Bailey just doesn't get it" side of the argument. Talk about a non-apology. He screwed up and he should be man enought to admit, not issue some weasily statement like this.
Anonymous
Mon Mar 7 2011 02:11
I was thinking about it.
If I were at work, say, and Bailey came up to me and said, hey you want to go to this club and watch blah......I would consider this guy a creep.

If he went on to say that he's spent his whole life researching this stuff, writing books on it, etc.......... then I would think he was more of a creep (but, a creep hiding behind an academic front).

If he went on to say, that not only does he research this stuff, but he introduces it to 600 young men and women a year.........then, I think, I would consider him more than just a creep.

I would consider him evil.

.

Anonymous
Sun Mar 6 2011 19:31
Exactly correct. Thank you for showing that we do understand why it COULD be controversial (morality issue), while giving a perfect reason for why it should not be an issue! I am disgusted by the president, as well.

Let me get this straight: an optional demonstration is offered for a class on human sexuality. The class is known to have featured controversial content in the past, and is taught by a tenured professor respected in his field, to students who are all over the legal age of consent. The students have all been told in advance about the content, and although the sex act was unexpected, no student complains. So who exactly is Professor Bailey being pressured to apologize to? Fox News and similar guardians of public morality? Some moronic Evanston parent who has already decided not to send her kids to Northwestern (in the unlikely event they would get accepted)? The cowardice demonstrated by Professor Schapiro is far more disgusting and damaging to Northwestern's reputation than a consensual sex act. I'm more worried about losing professors who feel their President won't stand up for them, than about a few prudish alumni or prospective parents.

Anonymous
Sun Mar 6 2011 17:40
Bailey still doesn't get it. He is still defiant, to say nothing of the hubris that it takes to "grade the arguments" against what he did. He is still trying to wrap himself in the cloak of academic freedom. Get real: the demonstration to which he lent the university's imprimatur does not fit under the banner of academia. Look at this guy's past performance and you will see his commitment to pushing the edge of the envelope, incorporating into his course material the seamier side of sexuality at every opportunity. The problem was in dragging NU into his personal fantasy world, stepping outside of any posture that tenure should protect him. I know that some will want to call me names for placing limits on an "anything goes" culture that Bailey promotes, but I would fire him for what he said in his "non-pology".
Anonymous
Sun Mar 6 2011 13:50
Bailey says he was wrong to allow "the demonstration" but then fails to identify what was wrong about that decision. I'm hazy on how this statement is different from his previous statements on the incident, except that the administration has thrown him under the bus.
Anonymous
Sun Mar 6 2011 03:03
Can't wait to hear what Colbert thinks about this! He's doing the commencement speech, right?
Kochevnik
Sun Mar 6 2011 02:24
Screw the xtians and their pathetic god which condones murder and discourages joy. They are a cancer upon humanity.
Anonymous
Sat Mar 5 2011 22:05
It sucks that he has to apologize? What sucks is that he and these two people--who were paid with NU money--aren't in jail for lewd conduct and that this arrogant fool hasn't been filed..

Is there an inverse relation between SAT scores and judgment with NU undergrads? I have never heard such miserable self-justification in all my life, and that includes many years of dealing with dimwits in the legal profession.

I am in the position to make serious sized monetary donations to NU and when I read twaddle like these comments and this peon's "apology" it makes me think the money could be better used elsewhere.

Class of '67
Sat Mar 5 2011 20:16
The demonstration was properly caveated and within reasonable bounds for the class. I do not fault Bailey but I do agree with those who fault the Daily. It was simply sophomoric sensationalism for the Daily buffoons to "report" and, predictably, our intellectually crippled fourth estate has seized upon it and publicized it across the world to sell papers, sell commercials, and garner clicks. I echo the many anonymous posters who say "Shame on The Daily".
Anonymous
Sat Mar 5 2011 18:44
Our university has offered a couple the chance to fulfill their exhibitionist fantasies in front of a class of students? Next time why not get the students involved in more of this "valuable" hands-on education?

Fellatio 101
SIGN UP TODAY!

Ugh. No wonder we're being made into a laughing stock.

Anonymous
Sat Mar 5 2011 16:33
I see a lot of discussion of sex negativity and social norms, but not much on how this peculiar combination of performance art and exhibitionism actually promoted knowledge. Sure, the kids loved it. That alone doesn't give it educational value.
Anonymous
Sat Mar 5 2011 16:18
Was this event meant to be therapeutic? Some sort of group exercise in overcoming societal constraints?
Deferens
Sat Mar 5 2011 16:01
When I went to NU, the closest course we ever had to this was "Orgo" and the lab was just a bunch of smelly chemicals.
I heard Norris Bookstore will be marketing a purple commemorative version of the apparatus used complete with the NU logo and the motto "Quaecumque Sunt Vera..."
Hello
Sat Mar 5 2011 14:12
Yeah it's the Daily's fault that Bailey had a naked woman demonstrate a sex toy in a classroom...Bailey created the controversy, the Daily just brought it to light.

What bothers me more than this after-class event is the student reaction to it. Most people here can't even understand how this could be seen as controversial.

Thankfully though, the international media disagrees with you. They are not covering this story just for laughs (although they are probably laughing at us), but because it is a big deal even though you cannot see it.

The arrogance that many people here are displaying by saying that a NU professor, and this university, can do no wrong is astounding. Students here are showing just how out of touch they really are, and now it is on display for the entire world to see.

Anonymous
Sat Mar 5 2011 14:00
Woodward? Bernstein? Jerks.
Anonymous
Sat Mar 5 2011 13:46
SHAME ON THE DAILY. Every single story you write about this should come with the disclaimer: "This is a controversy that we created."
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